Dating is good or bad?
It is absolutely bad, because, online dating, they are not putting
their own photos, some glamorous photos they are putting, it gives
a problem to opposite spouse, that may be female or male.
Over 50 Million Americans are in online dating and some are married
also. This is now 2 billion dollar industry in internet. But in this
case only 10% are genuine cases, remaining are fake, fake means with
fake photos and fake words about their position and process.
So every one has to beware of online dating, 90% are fake cases.
But everything we should not feel fake, in that 10% are genuine
with their problems and position, what they are.
In face book, college mates, colleagues in job are maintaining
their own personal group. In such groups also, liking each other
then settling their marriage with the acceptance of their parents.
We can assure that those are good, because if link may come through
Face book, even though, they are trying to get acceptance from the
parents, so it is something better prospects on each side.
In some face book, stories, they do not KNOW each other physically,
they will put fake photos with a glamour photos in online, then
they are loving each other, once it increases, really they are
cutting their communications even in face book group also.
They are misusing the precious love sense, for fun and joy. It is
not good. It is miserable thing, even to assume also, this is
big problem to anybody, once they are in love really. So beware
of these communications.
At any case, it is better to see each other, once if they are good
at online, see their houses, relatives and position, in person,
including their graduation certificates etc, check their names and
Adhaar ids carefully including PAN Cards, whether they income
tax assessed or not.
Especially in rich families, it is better to concern a detective
agency also, whether they are really rich and prosperous or not.
Once married we can not do anything. so suffering after, is
better than suffering before.
Be careful in such matters. Generally parents may be serous
regarding our studies and marks, but their thinking is for
our prosperity only.
So try to convince them, if really, loop holes are there. They
will enquire seriously, with all the needs and hopes.
Generally young people will see the present position, but our
parents will think in so many ways, because, they crossed
through all these in their life.
So respect parents do not hide anything before parents, express
your likings, get their acceptance, then go for marriage.
Otherwise, if any wrong goes, on your side, you should
face the problem, in your long life.
Please do not go for physical commitment, even after marriage
also, your spouse will point out the same, after marriage also,
so finally you will be in soup. So do not commit,
at any cost, for physical commitment.
So wedding bed should always be pure and sanctified in front of GOD.
Wishing you all the best,