Share Some Work in home to your Children:
Generally in every family will have two children on average.
Up to 10 years no problem, we should not say any work,
for the time being, we should allot some work in home also.
Basically mother will be tired so much with cooking
and cleaning. So we should allot some basic cleaning work
to the children above 10 years.
Beginning Tea cups cleaning, then plates cleaning,
then kettles cleaning. Finally we should give suggestion
that, in kitchen Sink should be empty without cleanable
vessels. Otherwise that kitchen sink will with full of
mosquitoes, that leads to fevers and other effects also,
lack of fresh air. So be careful.
We should suggest them, not to do at part,
for the time being, while going to the kitchen room,
some of the vessels, if they clean, burden on mother
will be reduced.
Cleaning vessels in kitchen, cleaning rooms etc.,
these works will reduce their violent feelings in them,
Only reading and playing will give in them over confidence,
sometimes, they will not understand the risks in home.
If all works are done by mother, means, one day,
she will dry out, for not doing anything.
That situation is bad to the entire family.
Even at the time of work allotment also, when mother
says anything, father should be silent. Then only, children
will take positively. That culture every family should maintain.
If they tired something, father can solace them.
If they left them likewise, without working,
they cannot hear at the age of 15. So we
should habituate them from the age of 10 years. It gives
value of life and time in them.
Especially for boys, buying simple vegetables to home,
carrying mineral water to home, likewise, simple works in home,
they will be home oriented for the rest of their time.
Otherwise they will be addicted to playing outside,
unnecessary friendships will develop to disturb them. They will
play cricket and some other plays, without understanding
the risks in home.
According to our capability and home situations
and works, we should habituate to them for the time-being
from child hood. Reading and Playing is also important
to children at the same time, they should share the
risks in home also.
These are all depends on parents only. If parents give,
proper guidance, generally they will here.
Wishing you all the best,